Biblical Counselling for Anxiety and Depression
- Jason Chang
- Jul 18
- 6 min read
If you're reading this at the end of a hard day, or in the middle of a hard season, I want you to know something before anything else: you are not the only one who has stood exactly where you're standing.
Anxiety and depression often arrive together, or take turns --- one the fear of what's coming, the other the weight of what already is. Some days you can barely tell them apart. If that's where you are, you don't have to explain yourself or dress it up to keep reading. This page is for you as you actually are right now, not as you wish you were.
First, the practical question
Biblical counselling and medical care are not rivals, and you don't have to figure out which one you need before you reach out.
Sometimes what looks like depression has a physical driver underneath it --- a thyroid problem, a medication, disrupted sleep, the aftermath of having a baby, something else entirely. Sometimes it doesn't. Sometimes both are true at once, tangled together in a way that's hard to sort out alone. If a counsellor ever tells you that seeing a doctor is a failure of faith, please don't believe them --- and if a counsellor treats you as nothing but a set of symptoms to be managed, they're not seeing you either.
You genuinely don't need to have this sorted out before you talk to me. Bring the question, however unformed it is, to the consultation, and we'll think it through together, unhurried. And if I come to believe you should see a physician, I'll tell you gently and plainly --- that's not me stepping back from you. It's still part of the same care.
If you're in crisis right now, or you're thinking about harming yourself, please don't wait for a consultation to reach out for that. Call or text 988 (the Suicide Crisis Helpline, available right across Canada, any hour of the day or night) or go to your nearest emergency department. I want to be clear that this isn't me passing you along --- it's the truest first step I know, and I would tell you exactly the same thing sitting across from you.
The story your struggle sits inside
When I sit with someone who's anxious or depressed, I don't start by trying to manage the feeling. I start by locating it inside a much bigger story --- Scripture's own story, which moves through creation, fall, redemption, and restoration. I think it's the only story big enough to hold what you're carrying, so let me walk through it with you here.
Creation. You were made for something good. Made to trust, to rest, to be truly known, to enjoy God and be enjoyed by him in return. Anxiety and depression were never part of that design --- which is exactly why they feel so wrong to you, so out of place. That feeling isn't a malfunction. It's accurate. Something in you still remembers what you were made for, even now.
Fall. But you live in a world that broke, long before you had any say in it, and you are not somehow exempt from that breaking. This is where lament belongs, and I want to say this as clearly as I can: the fall is a place you are allowed to stand. You don't have to hurry through it to get to the hopeful part. The Psalms are full of people saying things to God that would make a lot of modern Christians flinch --- "How long, O Lord? Will you forget me forever? How long will you hide your face from me?" (Psalm 13:1, ESV). That's Scripture. That's the very vocabulary God gave his people for a moment exactly like yours.
If anyone has ever rushed you out of your grief, they weren't reading their Bible carefully. Grief that gets hurried along doesn't disappear --- it just goes underground, and it costs more to dig back up later.
Redemption. And here's what I most want you to hear: Christ did not stand outside any of this, watching from somewhere safe. He was "a man of sorrows, and acquainted with grief" (Isaiah 53:3, ESV). He stood at a friend's grave and wept, openly, in front of everyone (John 11:35). In a garden, the night before he died, his own soul was "very sorrowful, even to death" (Matthew 26:38, ESV), and he asked, if there were any other way, for the cup to pass from him (Matthew 26:39). Whatever you're carrying right now, he has carried something of his own into it. He is not observing you from a distance. He is with you in it.
Restoration. And this is not where your story ends. I won't pretend to know if Tuesday will be easier than today --- I don't know that, and I won't promise it. But I can tell you this: a day is coming when God himself "will wipe away every tear from their eyes, and death shall be no more, neither shall there be mourning, nor crying, nor pain anymore" (Revelation 21:4, ESV). The last word over your life has already been spoken. It is not the word you're living inside of right now.
What we actually do
When we sit down together, mostly what happens is: we talk, and I listen closely, and I ask you a lot of questions --- because the particular shape of your anxiety or your depression matters more to me than whatever label it might carry.
Together, gently, we'll look underneath it. Not to find something to blame you for --- I promise you that's never the point --- but because anxiety in particular tends to attach itself to something. What am I afraid of losing? What am I quietly trusting to hold everything together? What have I made load-bearing that was never built to carry that kind of weight? Those aren't accusations, and I won't treat them that way. They're the questions that take us somewhere symptom management on its own can't reach.
If anxiety is what you're carrying, we'll spend real time with Philippians 4:6--7 --- a passage that gets quoted at hurting people constantly and explained to almost none of them: "do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God" (ESV). I want us to actually work through what that's asking of you, and just as importantly, what it isn't. "Do not be anxious" was never meant as a command to feel differently just because someone told you to.
If depression is what you're carrying, we'll spend real time in the Psalms --- not skimming for a comforting line, but sitting with how God's own people have spoken to him from the very bottom. Psalm 88 ends in darkness, with no resolution offered, and God still chose to put it in his book (Psalm 88:18). I think that matters more than we usually let it.
And we'll go slowly. Always. This kind of work happens at the level of the heart, and hearts don't keep anyone's schedule but their own.
What this doesn't promise
I won't tell you that Scripture will lift this in six sessions, because I don't know that, and I'd rather be honest with you than easy to listen to.
Biblical counselling aims at something deeper than symptom relief --- it aims at Christlikeness. Often relief comes alongside that. Sometimes it comes later than you'd like, or partially, or in a shape you didn't expect. Some of the most faithful people I know of have walked with God through decades of depression. That was never a failure --- not theirs, and not God's.
What I can promise you is this: the work goes toward the root of things, not just the surface, and you will not be doing it alone.
Do I have to be a Christian?
Biblical counselling works from the conviction that Scripture carries real authority over how we understand ourselves. It works best, honestly, when you share at least the beginnings of that conviction. If you don't, I don't think this is the right fit for you --- and I want to say clearly that there's no shame in that. It's simply a mismatch worth knowing before we begin, not after.
What it costs
The first conversation is free --- fifteen minutes, no pressure. After that, individual sessions run fifty minutes at $150. If you don't have insurance coverage, please ask me about a reduced rate. I keep part of my schedule open for exactly that.
Many extended health plans cover sessions with an RCC or CCC, and I hold both. More on how insurance coverage works here.
Full rates are on the Rates page, and where your fee goes is public too --- I don't take a salary from this practice.
If you've read this far
If you've made it this far down the page, you're probably tired --- maybe more tired than you've let on to most people. I'd like to talk with you. Book the free consultation, just fifteen minutes, no obligation attached to it. We'll figure out together, gently, whether this is the right next step for you.
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